MOVING

yes, my blog is moving! It will take a while because it is a rather big move but I have started building it and you can find it here http://web.mac.com/cullymason/Site/Welcome.html

true stuff

Its really funny how things work out. Its scary how many things I put never in front of and somehow they still managed to happen. How many times i swore you would never catch me here or there, yet here I am….there. I never understood the term grown up- as if there is a phase where there is no more growing and that you have reached your limit. There was a time I thought I would never grow up. As it turns out, I couldnt be more wrong. We are all growing, we just fail to see it sometimes because we arent growing in the direction we think we should or thought we would. Today I sat on my back porch with a cup of coffee and a news paper and when I sat down it just hit me like a ton of bricks. Its not that I couldn’t have been doing what I was doing that morning last year, it was that I most certainly wouldnt. I have changed a considerable amount since high school. I am more introverted, I like plans, and  now apparently I enjoy coffee and a news paper in the morning. Early in the morning, I now hate sleeping in. I go to bed at the same time every night. It is just strange- my dad asked me yesterday about how he should handle a situation with his wife (my mother for those who didnt know). I cant help but grow up. Life cant help but prove your nevers wrong. 
 

whatever it takes

I own this movie “the last kiss” with Zach Braff. The first time I saw it, I thought it was awful and I dont know what made me want to put it in just now and It certainly didnt change my perspective on the movie. In fact I was pretty much out of it the whole movie until one line came. In short Mr Braff cheats on the girl thats having his baby. And hes talking to the girls father trying to explain why he did what he did and he said “well you know sir love is complicated.” And I think the father had just about the best response- “No, love is simple. You always do whatever it takes.” And maybe to u it seems like some stupid cliche line and maybe it is. But for some reason it really rang true to me. That really love isnt what is complicated. Life is complicated and if it was really love, u just do whatever it takes. Leave it to me to find a good line in a horrible movie

really all we need is  a bit of patience. Just when I thought my life was spiraling down..its starting to perk up a bit. And sure itll go down a bit, but i think I just have to appreciate this while its hear. Srry about not updating like i usually do- its finals week!